BRIDGEPORT,
Friday, November 1 - In solidarity with his brother bishops
in the State of Connecticut, the Most Reverend William E. Lori,
Bishop of Bridgeport, has expressed his support for a petition,
organized by the Knights of Columbus, against "same-sex unions"
and in defense of traditional marriage and the Sacrament of Matrimony.
During
all Masses in the Diocese of Bridgeport on Saturday, November
2, and Sunday, November 3, priests will read from the pulpit a
letter from Bishop Lori urging the Catholic faithful to show their
support by signing the petition.
The
petition proposes a "Connecticut Defense of Marriage Act" which
states, "Only the union of one man and one woman shall be valid
or recognized as a marriage in Connecticut. Any other relationship
shall not be recognized as a marriage or its legal equivalent,
nor shall it receive the benefits or incidents exclusive to marriage
from the state of Connecticut."
Members
of the Knights of Columbus will be present at all 87 parishes
in Fairfield County to coordinate the signing effort.
"Today
I ask you to stand up for the truth about marriage and family
in the Creator's plan," Bishop Lori says. "I urge you to join
with fellow citizens in opposing legislation that would legalize
same-sex unions in the State of Connecticut."
The
full text of Bishop Lori's letter follows.
November
2-3, 2002
Dear
friends in Christ,
Today I ask you to stand up for the truth about marriage and family
in the Creator's plan. Specifically, I urge you to join with fellow
citizens in opposing legislation that would legalize same-sex
unions in the State of Connecticut.
Efforts to enact such legislation represent a large effort by
a small special interest group. These activists seek to redefine
marriage and family for our whole society. They wrongly claim
that current law is discriminatory. It is not. Current law allows
persons, regardless of gender or marital status, to designate
others with powers of medical decision making and hospital visitation.
Same-sex couples already can adopt children in this State. Members
of same-sex couples can designate one another as beneficiaries
in their wills without being penalized. Indeed, Connecticut inheritance
tax is being phased out.
Current
marriage law is not discriminatory but same-sex legislation would
violate our civil rights. For example, in Vermont, where same-sex
civil unions have been legalized, the law penalizes justices of
the peace who conscientiously refuse to participate in such ceremonies.
Already the education of our children in public schools is being
impacted. Some public school textbooks wrongly state that the
Gospel does not prohibit homosexual activity. If marriage law
in Connecticut is changed, your children will be taught distorted
views concerning marriage and family that you may have little
ability to change.
Marriage
is necessary for the good of society and has the right to be protected
by law. Long before our country and its laws were established,
human reason recognized the unique role of marriage and family
in society. As Pope John Paul II has stated: "Marriage, which
under-girds the institution of family, is constituted by the covenant
whereby a man and woman establish between themselves a partnership
of their whole life. This covenant, by its very virtue, is ordered
to the well being of the spouses and the procreation and upbringing
of children. Only such a union can be recognized and ratified
as a 'marriage' in society." [Letter to Families, 1994]
After
Mass, the Knights of Columbus will request your signature on a
petition in support of strong laws to protect marriage and family.
The petition states:
We,
the undersigned, oppose the passage of any legislation that
seeks to redefine marriage and request that you do the same.
Further, we expect you, as an elected representative of the
people of Connecticut, to honor our votes and our values, and
to protect the institution of marriage by supporting the following
Connecticut Defense of Marriage Act:
"Only
the union of one man and one woman shall be valid or recognized
as a marriage in Connecticut. Any other relationship shall not
be recognized as a marriage or its legal equivalent, nor shall
it receive the benefits or incidents exclusive to marriage from
the state of Connecticut."
I ask you to sign this petition as you leave church today. Petitions
gathered from all around the State will be presented to the Connecticut
Legislature to assure that your voice is heard. From the information
you are sharing with us, you may be receiving follow-up information
from groups with whom we work on these and similar issues.
Let me also recall that last year, the Legislature nearly interfered
with the way in which the Sacrament of Penance is celebrated by
attempting to invade the seal of confession. We need to be vigilant
lest the Legislature attempt to impose its will on the way in
which the Church understands and celebrates the Sacrament of Matrimony.
Assuring
you of my prayers for you and your families, I remain
Faithfully in Christ,
Most Reverend William E. Lori
Bishop of Bridgeport
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