If you can't see this Diocesan video, click here to get the Flash Player
.
  • Our Diocese
    • Who We Are
    • At a Glance / Statistics
    • Directions
  • Our Bishop
    • Office of the Bishop
    • Bishop William E. Lori
    • Writings of the Bishop
    • Bishop's Coat of Arms
    • Past Bishops
  • Bishop Lori's Blog
  • Safe Environments
    • Welcome
    • How to Report
    • Background Checks
    • Awareness Training
    • Q & A
    • Updates
    • Sexual Abuse Policy
    • Code of Conduct
    • Dallas Charter
    • Essential Norms
  • The Bridge
  • Resources
    • Human Resources
    • Diocesan Resources
    • Parish Finance Manual
    • 2007 Stewardship Report
  • Fairfield County Catholic
    • Current Edition
    • Contact Us With News
    • Advertise!
  • Spirituality for Today
  • Clergy & Religious
  • Vocations
  • Our 87 Parishes
    • Locate Parish on Map
    • Report Concerns
    • Eucharistic Adoration
  • Catholic Charities
    • Welcome
    • Events
    • Adoption
    • Counseling
    • Family Support
    • Housing
    • Mental Health
    • Nutrition
    • Donate Now
    • Contact Us
  • Catholic Schools
  • Pastoral Services
  • Pastoral Plan, Year 3
  • Family Life
    • Welcome
    • Marriage Preparation Program
    • Our First Years Together
    • Natural Family Planning
  • Respect Life
  • Apostolates/Ministries
  • Catholic Cemeteries
  • Development Office
  • Living Our Faith Appeal
    • Welcome!
    • Watch the Videos!
    • Ways to Give
    • Donate Now Securely Online
  • Finance Services
  • Diocesan Tribunal
  • Women's Ministries
  • Media
    • Press Release Archives
    • Media Contacts
    • Fairfield County Catholic
    • Spirituality for Today
    • Bishop Lori's Blog
  • Useful Links
  • Contact Us
  • Home  •
  •  Parishes  •
  •  Schools  •
  • Contact Us  
  • Site Search:



Homily

Mass for People with Special Needs

by the Most Reverend William E. Lori, S.T.D.
Bishop of Bridgeport

Holy Cross Parish, Fairfield
October 19, 2008



Introduction: We Thank God for You!

It is a joy to be with you this afternoon and I want to thank Father Pecaric for hosting us so graciously and for his dedicated and energetic service to the people of Holy Cross Parish! And with him I want to thank my brother priests who are here after a very busy Sunday schedule - I'm very happy you're here.

Let me also thank Sr. Alejandra Keen who directs the Office for Pastoral Services and, in a very special way, Michelle Grieco whose ministry has been so helpful to the community gathered here today. Thank you, Michelle, for organizing this Mass and the Education Fair that follows.

And I certainly want to thank in advance those who have tables at the Fair, including a number of parishes, Catholic Charities, St. Vincent's, and St. Catherine Academy which is a near neighbor to Holy Cross Parish.

Let me warmly welcome Helen Burland (President) and Sr. Marilyn Muldoon (Principal), as well as our St. Catherine Students of whom we are so proud.

It is also always a joy for me to welcome my brother Knights of Columbus, not only because I happen to be the Chaplain for the Order but above all because of the robust defense of human life and dignity which characterizes this Order founded here in CT by a holy priest some 126 years ago - my very warming and grateful greetings!

And I want to welcome with all my heart the families of those with special needs, especially the parents and siblings, and those of you - boys and girls, men and women - who have special needs and who are so very precious in God's eyes and ours!

St. Paul describes how my own feelings in being you better than I can in today's second reading, from his first letter to the Thessalonians: "We give thanks to God always for you, remembering you in our prayers, unceasingly calling to mind your work of faith and labor of love and endurance in hope of our Lord Jesus Christ …." So we have come to celebrate this Mass not only for you but indeed to celebrate it with you and to give thanks to God for the wonderful gifts that are so often to be found in needs which you bear in a spirit of faith, hope, and love.

We Belong to God

And in this spirit of thankfulness, let us think about the Gospel we just heard. It tells how some powerful people tried to trap Jesus by asking him a trick question about taxes … & those questions are always tricky! Either way Jesus answered - if he supported or opposed paying taxes to the Roman Empire who had conquered Israel - he'd be in trouble. But Jesus was not only too smart for his opponents - he was too wise. He asked them to get him a coin and then he asked whose picture is on it. His opponents said that Caesar - the head of the Roman Empire - was on it. And Jesus replied, "Fine! Give to Caesar what belongs to him and to God what belongs to him!"

It's a pretty interesting story but maybe we wonder what it has to do with us! Well, it has a lot to do with us - with this community of special needs families - gathered together here at Holy Cross this afternoon. It has to do with us because we belong to God! We are God's people! And that's really a very important message for all of us to hear. For what belongs to God is also what is most important to us: our minds, our hearts, our freedom, the people we love, the world we live in, our souls, our desire to do what is good, our hope to live with God forever.

These are the things - our human dignity - that God cares about and these are the same things that we care about the most.

And among the things God cares about very much are your special needs. I come from a family where we experienced special needs first hand. My older brother has a serious learning disability and over the years - 61 to be exact - it hasn't been easy for mom and dad. But they would be first to tell you that Frankie - because of his needs - is a person who values what is more important in life and that's friendship. Frankie's needs keeps on showing mom and dad and myself the basic importance of friendship - in the way he shows affection for our family and for those staff at the group home where he lives… and because of love he has developed other gifts and talents… even remembering the lyrics of songs he learned years ago. And when you really think about it, all God is asking of us is our friendship. He made us so that he could love us and so that we could love him in return.

And that's why we're here - to be in the presence of Jesus so that he could keep on claiming us as his own - as sons and daughters beloved in the eyes of his heavenly Father.

And they way God claimed us as his own was the Cross - by which he shared all that we suffer and much, much more. By his Cross he won for us eternal life and joy. By bearing the cross of a special need, we can deepen our special friendship of Christ and special friendship with one another. And it is so important that there be opportunities like this for you to do so! And in that friendship we become truly holy, truly pleasing in God's eyes. So it is especially appropriate we're having this Mass at Holy Cross!

Conclusion

It is my hope that all of you will find this Mass and educational fair to be a source of support, information, assistance and loving welcome. I also hope this Mass will encourage us in our duty as citizens to defend the God-given dignity of those with special needs and to secure for them the services that they require.

May the Lord bless us and keep us in His love!


Return to the Writings of Bishop Lori



Copyright 2009 • The Roman Catholic Diocese of Bridgeport • All Rights Reserved
Website Design by Magtype Computer Resources